Wherever you go, there you are


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Today was one of those strangely synchronistic days where many of my clients presented with similar issues around feeling an imbalance between work and life.

For example, I saw a client who wanted some help answering her question – “should I find an easier job so that I have more energy for my family?”

Of course, as a Psychologist and health coach, my role isn’t to provide answers to questions, but to help my clients understand the drivers behind their question, uncover the question they are really seeking an answer for, empower them to think through the options available, and support them in their next steps.

During my session today, this client realised that “wherever you go, there you are” (Jon Kabat-Zinn). She became aware that finding an easier job wouldn’t solve the issue of her behaviour of over-investing in any job she does. She realised that the solution was rooted within her, not something externally driven.

My client established that the driver behind her original question was guilt around juggling full time work with parenting; the question she was really seeking an answer for was “am I doing enough in my role as a mother?”; the options she generated included setting firmer boundaries to ensure she didn’t take work home, being aware of her perfectionistic expectations of herself and working on being more self-compassionate, and setting daily intentions for how to spend quality time with her three children.

Are you feeling stuck with a challenge, and unsure of what options might be available to you? You could benefit from ongoing support and guidance from my Health Coaching program which empowers you to gain clarity on what is important to you, set goals and make sustainable changes that improve your health and happiness. Want to learn more? Contact me at psyched4success@hotmail.com

About psyched4success

"Psyched4Success" encapsulates the 4 foundations for Successful living: Heart - Emotions and Relationships Mind - Psychology and Thinking Body - Physical Health, Movement and Nutrition Spirit - Personal Essence, Values, Goals and Motivation I am a Psychologist with a passion for Holistic Health and Wellness, determined to inspire personal transformation in these foundational areas for success. When i am not working as a Psychologist, Corporate Trainer, and University Tutor, i love spending countless hours in the kitchen creating nutritious organic meals, inspired by a whole foods philosophy, free of gluten, sugar and dairy. I intend to share my creations with you here, as well as my journey from adrenal fatigue to health through my own personal, health, nutrition and lifestyle transformations. I am based in Sydney, Australia, but am an intrepid soul who sets an intention to visit a new destination each year.
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